I went on a second date with Chris, a guy from nerve.com, tonight. (This is not the super-verbal guy I blogged about before... I got tired of him and have been giving him the cold shoulder.) Anyway, afterward, I chatted with a friend of mine, and here's the transcript:
me: i mean, it's not like there's no attraction10:59 PM and i know myself and that i tend to become more attracted to someone the more i know them (if they have a good personality)
so it's just like. i wish we could wait to kiss until i wanted it more hehe
but on the other hand, i wouldn't want to build it up a lot
11:00 PM Friend: right. i often feel the same way. but it takes me sometimes months to build up that attraction. :) and yeah, its hard to wait that long when dating. i think when it takes that long, dating really isn't the right way to get to know someone
11:01 PM me: right, but how else do you meet people?
Friend: although, when it comes to that, when IS dating the right way to get to know someone?
right
me: hehehe
never!
i hate dating
i liked tonight, but still. i wish i could skip right to Relationship with Perfect Guy
Friend: I DO TOO